My brother, Jack, was 17 when I was born. Jack already loved Shirley – an early indication of his wisdom. Jack also loved all things motorized. I’ve seen sepia photographs of him and his best friend Choppy, leaned against a huge Indian motorcycle. I’ve emulated his style, but could never come close to his cred and cool.
Jack liked classic cars and trucks – a lifetime of them. As a teenager, he took Shirley out on dates in his white ’55 ford, two-door post with loud “laker” pipes that could be plugged for in-town driving – he was the minister’s son. There were numerous cars after that, but forever just one Shirley.
My mom and dad gave to each of their sons certain bits of their own prodigious talents. Jack got most of the practical, truly-useful genes. One day, he and dad (an English teacher, I thought) just started building houses together like they had been doing it forever. I was “helping”, and I noticed they didn’t even have to talk about what they were doing. Later, they started raising horses together. Occasionally, I “helped” them with that. Jack helped me some, too. He once saved my life when a horse fell on me.
Jack was a great artist. He made a beautifully-crafted scrimshaw powder horn for my newborn son. For me, he made a guitar from a walnut tree that had been struck down by lightning. It has mother-of-pearl inlay from shells he collected on the banks of the Illinois River. He made many wonderful things and could build or repair anything he decided to. To this day, when my son notices that I’ve started any kind of project requiring practical skill, he asks “should we go ahead and call Uncle Jack?” And, when we did inevitably call Jack, he would always be there. We love you, Jack. We take comfort in knowing you love us, too.